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Know what you are getting yourself into before you get in too deep. Not only will she be less likely to make your lives less of a living hell, but she’s the best resource for learning who this man is. Plus, if he was ever abusive or unkind to her, you need to know.
Of course some women are bitter and may not be the best judge of your new man’s character.
However, if he is prone to jealousy or possessiveness, this will be a problem (as it would be in any relationship). If he is unable to accept this, move on to a more confident man.
Just because he’s older doesn’t mean he has settled down. Think of how you would feel if the shoe were on the other foot.
Some men chase younger women as a way of making themselves feel younger or to stroke their own ego by bagging a young hottie.
Some men live a George Clooney type of life, and plan to die a bachelor. You wouldn’t want some other (younger) woman trying to take your place in your children’s lives. He may be ready to settle down and start a family, while you are just getting started as an adult and have no interest in settling down.
If a long line of hot women couldn’t get ‘ol Georgie boy to settle down, it’s highly unlikely you’ll be able to get a Clooney-wanna-be to turn into the marrying type either. If that’s what you are looking for, then go for it and have a blast. Or, he may be at the stage in his life where he has already been married, has kids and has no interest in ever getting married again.
Pay attention to the way he’s treating you and the language he uses.
This will tell you a great deal about his intentions. Just because a man is older and has more experience doesn’t mean he knows everything.
If you’re attracted to older women you need to seriously up your game – drinks at a grotty man pub and some £4.99 supermarket flowers will be met with disdain. If she’s taking you out for dinner make sure your table manners are up to scratch. Think the theatre, the Booker prize and long country walks. It’s not quick or easy but then it’s not quicker or easy for her to have such great hair, make-up and style.